When I am driving, and I see a dog in a car, I will automatically say, “Oh, hi puppy!” It does not matter if the dog is large or small, old or young. All dogs are puppies to me. My initial thought on why I do this is because all dogs are cute to me, and I equate cute with puppy. But upon further contemplation, I think it’s because puppy is a term of endearment. And I really do love just about every dog I see.
Similar to how I call all dogs puppies, I also call all of my students, both past and present, my kids. I have been teaching now for 19 years, and I have taught over a thousand students. I have stayed in touch with many of them, and some of them are now friends, and colleagues. But regardless of my relationship with them, I will always refer to them as my kids.
Because as my kids, I will always believe in their potential. I’ll continue to be their biggest cheerleader, celebrating their successes and accomplishments. I want to know what they are up to, and how their lives are going. I will always be available to guide them through difficult times. I want to remind them that life is a journey filled with both struggles and triumphs, and it is not a weakness to ask for help. As my kids, I love to see the lessons I taught them reach far into their adulthood. And I do not mean the lessons from English and speech class, although I love to see them using those skills in their lives. I’m talking about the lessons on kindness, respect, and empathy. The lessons on how to be a good human. Those are the things I love to see in my kids. I want my kids to know they have so much to offer, and I know they are going to make an impact on this world. Above all, being my kid means I love them and I am here for them no matter what.
Just as all dogs will always be puppies to me, all my students will always be my kids. And just like a real parent, I want my kids to check in every once and a while. A simple, ‘hello’ will do. I will always be here for my kids, eager to hear their stories and support them as they navigate life’s journeys.
